Episode 84 | October 22, 2024

Two Speech Language Pathologists (SLPs) join us to discuss ways to support early language development and literacy in your home & activities. Listen in to hear common myths around language, when to seek professional opinion, and what evaluation or therapy may look like.

Shavon St. Germain and Tala Hershey, two licensed SLPs, join us to talk boundaries when it comes to knowing our own children, understanding their needs when it comes to everything, but in this case language. Throughout this series we have heard it over and over again, early intervention is best.

INTRO

Welcome to “That’s a Hard No”the podcast about learning to say no and set boundaries to live our best lives. 

Follow along with me as we learn from fellow strugglers and experts, so that you too can start saying no without feeling fear, guilt, or FOMO. 

 

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SHOW NOTES
We were lucky enough to share this conversation with TWO experts in the field of Speech Pathology in the next episode of our series with The Literacy Cooperative, Donate to this amazing organization here.  Shavon and Tala join us to discuss common misconceptions around early speech abilities, easy ways to bring language learning into your daily routines, and setting boundaries around those who just don’t understand.
Shavon St. Germain is a licensed bilingual Speech-Language Pathologist & Audiologist with over 20+ years of experience helping families like yours, a mom of 3 and the creator of Listen Learn Talk. Shavon teaches parents simple, actionable steps that are easy to incorporate into their routine so they can feel confident teaching their children to be better communicators.  
Tala Hershey is a speech-language pathologist with her own pediatric private practice, Hershey Therapy. Tala specializes in toddler language development and coaching for parents to learn research-based strategies to boost their toddlers’ language for toddler’s who present with expressive language difficulties.
Listen in to learn about the best practices for providing your child the best opportunity at language learning and literacy. 
Key Takeaways
[00:00:31] Language-rich environment importance

  • Providing constant exposure to spoken language
    • This can start as early as in the womb but is important as soon as baby is born – narrating life can be a good way to start
    • Even just viewing verbal interactions is helpful
  • Describe what you see, feel, and experience

“What you put in is what you’re going to get out.”

[00:04:11] Importance of reading to children

“If I had to give like one answer, one word answer to the question, how can I help my child with language? It would be read.”

  • Reading is another critical element of a language-rich environment
  • Introduces children to new vocabulary but also exposes them to different sentence structures and contexts
  • Can transport children to different places and experiences, expanding their understanding of the world
  • The way parents read to their children is just as important as the act of reading itself:
    • Engage with pictures
    • Discuss colors
    • Ask open-ended questions about the story; this can enhance comprehension and encourage children to think critically about what they are hearing
  • This interactive approach to reading helps children connect words with meanings and fosters a love for literature

“It’s like a launchpad, right? It’s not the end-all be-all of the book. It’s a launchpad for learning.”

“We play with purpose, you know, there’s always a rhyme and reason, no pun intended to what we’re doing in therapy.”

[00:12:56] Signs of speech development issues

  • Parents should be vigilant about their child’s speech and language milestones. By age two, children should be using words consistently, and by age three, their vocabulary should expand significantly
  • They advise against the “wait and see” approach often suggested by pediatricians, as this can lead to missed opportunities for support during critical developmental periods

“What exactly are we waiting to see? You know, we don’t want to miss what we call the critical language period where children just kind of explode with language.”

  • Early intervention is highly important!
    • Waiting for a child to “catch up” on their own can lead to missed opportunities for support during critical developmental periods

“When in doubt, check it out.”

  • By the age of two, children should begin using words consistently – even if not many

  • By three, their vocabulary should expand significantly

[00:24:17] Early literacy skills development

“If there was one takeaway for parents that I could give, it would be to start early.”

“It’s interesting how that brain development is happening all the time.”

[00:29:03] Learning language through play

  • Interactive activities are key – playful and hands-on experiences
  • Many everyday items can be used for engaging language play
    • Cups, yarn, paper towel rolls, etc.
  • Pretending as well as naming parts of items is a way to add lots of language into play – asking questions and giving time for pause is important

“my number one parenting advice to all parents is if a toddler or a little kid’s cranky, put them in water.”

  • All of these practices help teach children to express themselves, have conversations, and learn to ask

“I feel like the best learning happens in the mess, in the chaos at times to an extent.”

[00:39:33] Myths about speech delays

  • Being a boy does not make you a late talker
  • Being bilingual does not cause language delays
  • Speech does not happen “overnight”

“Don’t discount your little boys, you know, don’t let them slide because they’re boys.”

“I am for the signs for the early signs, just to give that child a way to express themselves and lessen their frustration.”

[00:44:21] Trusting parental instincts in evaluations

“I’ve never had a parent once regret starting to learn how to help their child speak earlier. But I have had countless parents come to me regretting that they started too late.”

[00:49:02] Importance of parental involvement

  • Parents need to be intentional in how they interact with their children and interactions
  • By fostering a language-rich environment, parents can help their children build a strong foundation for effective communication and lifelong learning

“The children that progress towards meeting their goals the fastest are the ones who have parents that are involved, who know what we’re doing and why we’re doing it.”

Credits and Thanks
  • Many thanks to our friends and families (our “villagers”) for listening, and for your continued support.
  • That’s a Hard No is a production of Clever Girl Marketing
  • Marketing and Production Coordinator, Maura Del Rosario
  • Production Support, Evergreen Podcasts, Noah Foutz, Producer
  • New Rock Anthem Music: Written by Noah, and performed by his band, The Big Leagues
  • Videographer, Kae Holmberg